Self confidence and self acceptance does not happen overnight it takes time, you may question at times how unfair life is or why you can't change or why can't you be like someone else, you fight the current situation , bringing on feelings of distress about your pain, fighting or resisting the reality of the pain in your life creates suffering and trying to reach unrealistic expectations.
You would be wise to learn to accept your authentic self and by doing this you should accept your current reality , pay attention to your thoughts and feelings and choose to be accepting and compassionate to your experiences and also live in the moment.
By accepting the present and having compassion for yourself you can create a happier and a more self confident you.
-FB