NM.
What happens when a friendship changes and its not always for the better.Don't get me wrong change is good,change is natural and we all change at some point in our lives but what happens when you change and you'r friends don't or vice versa.Sometimes we find that a friend with whom we had a long,important relationship with is no longer someone that we particularly like or enjoy being around.What used to work in the friendship no longer works. It is easy to talk theoretically about friendship but what are we to do when an old friend with whom, we have a lot of history with simply becomes an 'Acquaintance ' or even worse a complete stranger. So how does it happen? Now don't misunderstand me..every friendship has its ups and downs.No friendship is ever perfect .There is no doubt that a long-term friendship requires hard work and most of the time they are worth the effort.However Iam not talking about the bumps in the road of friendship but what about when the effort is no longer worth it.In my opinion relationships are a two way street and friendship isn't an exception.If one person stops trying it all falls apart. Maybe friendships have a lifespan? Perhaps when a friendship is over we can simply accept it and move on .Just because a friendships times has passed does not mean that it was not and is not important-still. However to demand a friendship to continue past its rightful time can be an attempt to turn it into something that it isn't.Sometimes the only way to get to have a "forever" friendship is to let it go in the form of what it was and simply to accept it in the form of what it is.
NM.
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