The first reason why both parents, a father and mother, should have equal
opportunities to raise their children is that the father, by his masculinity
nature, will be better to give his child the sense of braveness and teach them
to defend themselves against anyone who could hurt them in their environment. By
the father involving himself in this way in his child’s life would certainly
increase the their method of analyzing any trouble they could possibly find
themselves being involved in in the future and enhance and revive their
self-confidence and sense of responsibility. Even though I agree that a mother
should give her son/daughter a sense of tenderness to keep their children lean
when they deal with people, however, a father’s role in up bringing is a vital
element and role in building the child’s personality.
The second reason why the father is an essential part of raising the child is
that the father, and generally the man, is known for his wisdom. In fact, this
feature of the father gives him the superior qualities over the mother when
dealing in any problem that could arise within the house either with his wife or
with his children. Mothers are known for their emotional way of decision-making
process. Therefore, children should learn from their fathers to be more logical
and rational and to clarify their minds from anything that could affect their
decision. You learn to cook when you're helping mother bake in the kitchen, you
learn to fish when you're out with dad, but if only your mother teaches you how
to cook and father is 'too busy' to take you out to go fishing, then you've lost
a new experience you could have discovered. There are so many different things
your parents can teach you. But if only one parent puts in that effort and the
other doesn't, then your knowledge and mind will not be able to become more open
and aware of all the wonderful possibilities out there. Therefore, both parents
should assume equal responsibility when raising a child.
Sadly, today most children don't grow up with both parents aren't their side.
Kids who Grow up without both parents have been proven to have future commitment
issues are more likely to resort to drugs and alcohol and are less likely to be
successful in life. As they say ‘it takes two‘ so a mother figure and a father
figure is essential nearly to make it work. This is important for not only the
life of the child but also for the wellness of the world. This is happening
everywhere and maybe, just maybe this world would be a better place if parents
would step up and share equal responsibility in raising the child they made
together. Children raised within an intact family are more likely to be mentally
and physically better off in life. You need both eyes to see this clear path.
Without one, it is blurred and you may get sidetracked from the path and may
not be able to find your way once again. The same thing goes for parents raising
children. If one nurtures the child by himself/herself, then the child may feel
far away from the other parent and because their brains are still developing,
may resort to dangerous actions to make up for that loss like damaging their health by turning to alcohol and drugs. It is vital for parents to have an equal hand in caring for their child in order to help reduce this risk.
In conclusion, women should share with the man, the responsibility to
participate in raising up their child and be complementary to each other, in
order for the child to become a balanced and withhold a strong
personality.
LW